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How One Relationship Generated $1 Million+ (Real Story Inside)
Discover the 6 Circles of Connection That Transformed How I Think About Networking
One relationship. One million dollars.
No, that's not a typo - Selena Soo literally made over $1,000,000 from a SINGLE relationship.
And get this - her relationships have generated 8 figures total in her business! 🚀
Today I'm pulling back the curtain on her exact "Rich Relationships" framework that makes this possible.
Here's a Sneak Peek at What's Inside This Email:
The 6 Circles of Connection Framework that will transform how you think about relationships
How to identify and cultivate "Rich Relationships" that expand your business exponentially
The exact scripts Selena uses to initiate and nurture million-dollar relationships
My personal experience at Selena's Austin dinner party (and what it taught me about networking)
The surprising role of AI in relationship building - and when NOT to use it
Alright, let's Dive In...
Watch The Full Episode on YouTube:
What Are "Rich Relationships" and Why They Matter
Before we dive into the framework, let me share what Selena means by "Rich Relationships" - because this isn't your typical networking advice.
According to Selena, a rich relationship has three core characteristics:
1. Energy Abundance - It feels expansive to be in this relationship. You don't feel drained; you feel energized!
2. Goal Acceleration - These are people who genuinely want to help you reach your goals and dreams faster. They care about you winning!
3. Inspiration Factor - Rich relationships are with people who inspire you. You feel safe, valued, and important to them.
Think about that for a second - how many of your current relationships check all three boxes? 🤔
The 6 Circles of Connection Framework
This is where things get really interesting! Selena shared her favorite framework that completely changed how I think about managing relationships.
Every single person in your life falls into one of these six circles:
Circle 1: Your Innermost Circle (1-3 people) These are the people you're "doing life with." They see your ups and downs, they're your witnesses, and you are a genuine priority to them. This could be a supportive life partner, longtime best friend, or even a therapist you've worked with for years.
Circle 2: Treasured Connections (6-12 people) Your very best friends, trusted team members you work with daily, incredible colleagues, and top referral partners who always have your back. You're in active, regular contact with these people.
Circle 3: Broader Active Network (~100 people) Here's where it gets tactical! These people must meet the "3 R's":
Respected - You hold them in high regard
Referable - You'd confidently put them in front of your closest friends and clients
Responsive - They're part of your active network and will respond when you reach out
Circle 4: Distant Connections These could be amazing people you've only met once or twice, OR people you've known for years but there's some misalignment. Maybe they don't follow through, or you're just too maxed out to deepen the relationship right now.
Circle 5: Disconnected Relationships When someone has crossed a line or betrayed trust. You might wish them well, but you keep healthy boundaries because close relationship isn't good for you.
Circle 6: Everyone Else The rest of the world - simple as that!
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How to Actually BUILD Rich Relationships
Now here's where the rubber meets the road - Selena shared her exact approach for building these game-changing relationships:
Start with Yourself The number one insight? Rich relationships start with the relationship you have with yourself. You have to feel worthy of rich relationships and believe you're not bothering people.
Lead with Generosity When Selena was just starting out with no clients or following, she confidently built relationships with hugely influential people. How? She focused on GIVING rather than taking.
"The act of giving is the reward," she told me. People can feel when something is transactional versus when someone genuinely has your back.
Use Technology Wisely Here's something interesting - Selena uses AI tools like WhisperFlow and ChatGPT to help with communications, BUT she never loses the human touch. She warned against making people feel like they're being managed by an assistant or automation.
Pro tip: She has a VIP Relationship Manager who helps nurture her top relationships, but Selena stays involved by reviewing call recordings and adding personal touches.
My Personal Experience at Selena's Dinner Party
I recently experienced Selena's relationship-building magic firsthand at a dinner party she hosted in Austin.
What struck me wasn't just the caliber of people in the room - it was HOW she brought everyone together. She didn't just introduce people; she connected them based on shared values and complementary strengths.
By the end of the night, I'd made three connections that have already led to new opportunities for AdOutreach. That's the power of someone who truly understands rich relationships!
Your Action Steps
So how can you implement this in your business? Here are three things you can do TODAY:
Map Your Circles - Take 15 minutes and categorize your current relationships into the 6 circles. Be honest about where people really belong.
Identify Your Circle 3 Gaps - Look at your broader active network. Who's missing? What types of relationships would accelerate your goals?
Lead with Value - Pick 3 people from your Circle 2 or 3 and reach out with something valuable - no ask, just give!
A Special Resource from Selena
During our interview, Selena offered something incredible to our audience - she's giving away the first four chapters of her book "Rich Relationships" PLUS her complete collection of relationship-building scripts!
These are the exact word-for-word scripts she uses to:
Initiate conversations with high-level people
Nurture relationships over time
Make asks that get results
To get these resources, just reach out to her on Instagram @selenasoo and mention you want the scripts!
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